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Love Mate - May 2006

ArE yOu EnOuGh?

May 13th 2006 13:19

A common thing that most people say when they like someone is no matter what they want the best for that person. It just so happens that they feel the best thing for that person is themselves. But what if this isn’t true? What if the person you care about and have feelings for is the perfect person for you but you aren’t the perfect person for them? Is it fair of you to try to steal their heart knowing they deserve so much better than what u can offer them? Don’t get me wrong.. a person should never lower their standards but at the same time you should keep your standards at a level where u can give back the same amount you are asking for. If you want a guy or girl who is giving, intelligent, and romantic then u should be prepared to give the same thing in return because that’s what they deserve. If you honestly want a person to have the best and you know you can’t give that to them then maybe it’s time to let go..

*Alanna*

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Comment by Stanley

May 14th 2006 06:39

That really is a very beautiful sentiment, but the unfortunate aspect of love is that it can be potentially the most selfish act that any individual embarks on. There is this conception of love as being the most selfless adventure that human beings can take up, which is true to an extent. The selfish aspect of love is the demands that you place on this individual to validate your own self and feelings.

There are truly extraordinary individuals out there who do love someone to such an extent that they are willing to sacrifice their own happiness to see that someone special flourish. Unfortunately, those people are few and far between.

One final note thank you for your last comment in my entry ‘White Man’s Burden’ I was curious to see where this individual got their information from because I felt it was a little misguided,

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