bruce potterDo you do it just because you are horny?
March 13th 2007 00:09
He says….
Yes, I was horny and tempted but then there would be no virtue attached if it were easy...also, now here's an interesting ethical conundrum: do you fuck a person because they're quite attractive even though you don't like them or dislike their principles, just because you are horny? I have in the past- it was a no-brainer! Now, I think I try to be more consistent, even if there isn't the likelihood of there being an enduring relationship.
I agree that women’s' forwardness is refreshing and actually gives both parties the freedom to be honest. I have had sex with a women to whom I was not attracted because I thought it was the gentlemanly thing to do and I was very horny at the time. Now that I think on it, this has happened more than once. If a woman is forthright, it's easier to say "well, no, while I find you attractive etc, I would prefer not to because..."
Perhaps I should say especially in that case because then there is a more exacting test of principle. What are you thoughts on this one?
To root or not to root, that is the question...
She says….
To root or not to root? hmmm, well....considering we are wired differently and men are from Uranus (the new Mars) most guys would go for it regardless, and hey! I'm not judgmental - if it feels good - do it. No harm I guess, if everyone is agreeance and no one gets hurt - why not?
I have been out with some guys the dating site and have been offered all sorts of things...a holiday in Tahiti was one - a bribe...as tempting as it sounded and god knows - I could do with a holiday. I just couldn't. Zilch chemistry: Nada attraction: Zero sex appeal: I couldn't use him up - and the thought of 5 days with him......well, need I say more. Some girls can do it - personally, I can't....I need the mental, physical and visual all wrapped up in the intimacy thingy. If the chemistry isn't there - well, it just isn't there. I would rather play with my Dr. Ruth Eroscillator (which I must say - is hours of fun!!) I am partial to the hard lusty fuck - but there has to be chemistry - laced with Lust & Passion......ah! L & P.to me – that is sexy !
Yes, I was horny and tempted but then there would be no virtue attached if it were easy...also, now here's an interesting ethical conundrum: do you fuck a person because they're quite attractive even though you don't like them or dislike their principles, just because you are horny? I have in the past- it was a no-brainer! Now, I think I try to be more consistent, even if there isn't the likelihood of there being an enduring relationship.
I agree that women’s' forwardness is refreshing and actually gives both parties the freedom to be honest. I have had sex with a women to whom I was not attracted because I thought it was the gentlemanly thing to do and I was very horny at the time. Now that I think on it, this has happened more than once. If a woman is forthright, it's easier to say "well, no, while I find you attractive etc, I would prefer not to because..."
Perhaps I should say especially in that case because then there is a more exacting test of principle. What are you thoughts on this one?
To root or not to root, that is the question...
She says….
To root or not to root? hmmm, well....considering we are wired differently and men are from Uranus (the new Mars) most guys would go for it regardless, and hey! I'm not judgmental - if it feels good - do it. No harm I guess, if everyone is agreeance and no one gets hurt - why not?
I have been out with some guys the dating site and have been offered all sorts of things...a holiday in Tahiti was one - a bribe...as tempting as it sounded and god knows - I could do with a holiday. I just couldn't. Zilch chemistry: Nada attraction: Zero sex appeal: I couldn't use him up - and the thought of 5 days with him......well, need I say more. Some girls can do it - personally, I can't....I need the mental, physical and visual all wrapped up in the intimacy thingy. If the chemistry isn't there - well, it just isn't there. I would rather play with my Dr. Ruth Eroscillator (which I must say - is hours of fun!!) I am partial to the hard lusty fuck - but there has to be chemistry - laced with Lust & Passion......ah! L & P.to me – that is sexy !
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