bruce potterfRiEnDs WiTh LiMiTeD BeNeFiTs
March 29th 2006 22:25
Being a single mature lady, I find myself needing what I like to call a "refresher" of the more physical side of a relationship without all the strings attached. Now I'm not talking about sex because I still believe in only "making love" and to do that you should be with a very special person. (Or at least someone you could see yourself in a relationship with for more than a day); but a few innocent makeout sessions, now that I can go for! This being said, I think every person needs what I like to call a "friend with limited benefits". I know what you are thinking, what is a friend with limited benefits? Well let me explain. This is a person who you get along with, you aren't really interested in anything more than a friendship, but he/she supplies you with a less dangerous physical fix (like making out) so that your mind can get back on track. Because let's be honest, it hard to concentrate on important things like school or work when all you can think about is how long it's been since you have been kissed by someone outside of your family.
But like any other good thing, there is a catch! See this friendship is a lot harder to find than what it sounds because the amount of trust, rules, and barriers that is needed to prevent mixed feelings and a broken relationship makes it a very risky move to make . However I do think if more people had this type of friendship there would be a lot less people who settle and give into built up temptation. Just think about it how many times you thought to yourself, "I really don't like this person but it's been so I'm not going to be picky this time". Now just to have it out there I don't have this friend with limited benefits yet but after deep consideration it's definitely on my to find list...
But like any other good thing, there is a catch! See this friendship is a lot harder to find than what it sounds because the amount of trust, rules, and barriers that is needed to prevent mixed feelings and a broken relationship makes it a very risky move to make . However I do think if more people had this type of friendship there would be a lot less people who settle and give into built up temptation. Just think about it how many times you thought to yourself, "I really don't like this person but it's been so I'm not going to be picky this time". Now just to have it out there I don't have this friend with limited benefits yet but after deep consideration it's definitely on my to find list...
*Alanna*
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Sure, I sound like an asshole, but at least it's honest. After all, I couldn't help wanting something more, but I'd have to lie to say I didn't.
And your friend with the luck. I don't know any of the people involved, but I'd guess that the guy is wracking his brain, trying to figure out how to get to the next level.
Comment by alanna
So, I guess I would apply the same concept to casual sex where you get a quick physical fix with a friend with full benefits. I just left out sex as an option since I've never had casual sex with someone I didn't plan on having a relationship with.. but I've definitely kissed people I was never going to be with. So guess I just sticked to what I knew
But thanx 4 your input, it's always good to hear another perspective. Maybe I should stop my search for a friend with limited benefits search and just stick to finding a relationship because it sounds too good to be tru!