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Love Mate - by Sara Dobson

HOW LONG MORE?

September 2nd 2006 14:10
A question that many of us ask ourselves: HOW LONG MORE DO I HAVE TO WAIT BEFORE I FALL IN LOVE? Be honest, i'm sure if you've been dateless for the pass 8months that question keeps lingering at the back of your mind. I do. I mean, i'm only 20 and i'm asking myself that question.

It's funny how there are days where i love being single and free from being attached to another. But there are days where i soul-search myself and ask myself, what's wrong with me? Are my standards that high or am i that not worth being pursued? The waiting for that day where the heavens give you the green light to fall in love with the person you want to fall in love with. How long more??


A friend of mine has been trying her best to get over her crush that has been going on for 2years. Just becoz he isn't really into a relationship any time soon, she decided to just cut him some slack and try and move on with life. Recently, she bumps into this nice young guy. Gentle, very pleasant and attractive. And so she thinks: he looks like a nice catch, be friends and hopefully something will happen. He gives her a very very subtle signals and so she thinks again: cool, there might be a chance. And after seeing him for the third time, she realises that he is attached to this lady, who looks so much older than he is and isn't that compatible, according to her at least. And she says: "I seriously am loosing it. I can't trust my intuition anymore."

So for the rest of us, whose hope is still up and the sun is always shinning, how long do we have to wait?

Cher
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Comment by Cher

September 2nd 2006 14:24
How long?? I don't know...like they always so, when the time is right, it will happen. It will come when u least expect it. We'll see....

Comment by Date Gal

September 3rd 2006 00:10
Oh my god - you are so young!!! Who cares about falling in love when you have so much more to do with your life - climb the career ladder, travel, go and run amok with your friends, try new experience and gal - date as many guys as you can! That way you will learn what you're really looking for in a guy and when the time is right (which who knows may be 10 days or 10 years), you will meet the guy you're meant to be with!

Til then go have fun! Enjoy yourself because quite frankly life is too short!

Comment by Cher

September 3rd 2006 07:22
Yeah...true true...life is short and all. But i think there is somehting u get when u r with someone u love that u can't get being single. Admit it. And don't u tink falling in love and dating is the same? I mean, don't u wana date someone u r attracted to, u are in love with?

Comment by Date Gal

September 3rd 2006 12:14
Hmmm... I guess what I am trying to say to you is that you're young and there's so much more to life than worrying day by day when you're going to meet the love of your life. Yes having someone love you is great but it's really important too to enjoy life, try everything it has to offer and really find out what you want. You may think you know what type of guy you want to fall in love with - but have your heart broken a few times and then you'll really know what you want! Love isn't always about happy and romantic times - it's bloody hard work!

Comment by Cibbuano

September 4th 2006 02:54
when I was 20, I enjoyed dating for the sake of dating. Live it up! Forget about love - after all, it'll smack you in the head when you're least expecting it.

If you go on dates looking for love, you'll scare your dates away!


Comment by Anonymous

April 10th 2007 12:36
I think a comedian put it best...

when you are single you experience 2 emotions loneliness and euphoria.

loneliness those few moments when you're in bed right before you go to sleep and euphoria the rest of the time...


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