bruce potterTHE PERFECT ONE
August 22nd 2006 14:53
Until now...do you still think that your"soul mate" is out there somewhere, that there is that ONE individual who can complement you and fulfill you like no other? And most importantly, is it your task to find this mystery person?
Suprisingly, many people still believe that there is one perfect, preordained person for them and that they were made for each other. I guess if you've watched enough Koren-series like i have, then you would be persuaded to believe that this is so. A man and woman are united after a series of near misses and obstacles. At long last, they gaze deeply into each other's eyes and embrace, usually with soothing music and fireworks at the background.
I have to admit that the soul mate proposition is very very appealing to me. But honestly, it is more of a fantasy than a reality. In my opinion, if the soul mate proposition stands....then here is a scenerio: boy meets girl and finds out that they are soul mates. They get married. Boy dies in a tragic accident. After 10yrs, girl meets another boy. And gets married. Question: who was the perfect soul mate, Boy A or Boy B? Do you get my point?
I believe that soul mates are made, not born. You start with the ingredients for a highly compatible, successful relationship, and then you work to devevlop closeness and intimacy. DOes this mean you lower your standards when it comes to finding a partner? Certainly not. It simply means you "expand your field of vision".
Peath out
Cher
Suprisingly, many people still believe that there is one perfect, preordained person for them and that they were made for each other. I guess if you've watched enough Koren-series like i have, then you would be persuaded to believe that this is so. A man and woman are united after a series of near misses and obstacles. At long last, they gaze deeply into each other's eyes and embrace, usually with soothing music and fireworks at the background.
I have to admit that the soul mate proposition is very very appealing to me. But honestly, it is more of a fantasy than a reality. In my opinion, if the soul mate proposition stands....then here is a scenerio: boy meets girl and finds out that they are soul mates. They get married. Boy dies in a tragic accident. After 10yrs, girl meets another boy. And gets married. Question: who was the perfect soul mate, Boy A or Boy B? Do you get my point?
I believe that soul mates are made, not born. You start with the ingredients for a highly compatible, successful relationship, and then you work to devevlop closeness and intimacy. DOes this mean you lower your standards when it comes to finding a partner? Certainly not. It simply means you "expand your field of vision".
Peath out
Cher
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